let’s start a
One where every body is worthy and no body is shameful.
Let’s be uppity love rebels who fight to take the guilty out of pleasure.
Let’s stand up and proudly declare that we deserve decadence, joy, and fun in our lives.
are you in?


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There is a point in every author’s life when they make the decision to take this whole writing thing seriously. For me, that point happened halfway through law school when it became apparent that the only thing keeping me sane was writing about the insanity....

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Be a Citizen of Hope

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