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Roz the Diva on why pole dancing is good for the soul

Loving your body for the way it can move, pole dancing, and sweating glitter, on Episode 10 of the Bawdy Love Podcast.

Roz the Diva was once stuck in the grind of trying to achieve an ideal body through endless cardio. After one pole dancing class piqued her curiosity, she grew to find strength in her body and soul to shed the idea of normative beauty standards and love herself for the sexy athlete she is. Her newfound confidence led to a stint on America’s Got Talent and a career helping others celebrate the amazing ways their bodies can move.

In this episode, we discuss Roz’s journey as she quit her job and fulfilled her dreams as a personal trainer. We talk about what people expect of pole dancers and how Roz, as a plus-sized woman of color, more closely resembles the incredibly diverse people who take up the sport than the normate women we typically imagine.

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Topics covered in this conversation include:

physical movement, body confidence, strength, entrepreneurship

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More About Roz “The Diva” Mays

NASM-certified Roz “The Diva” Mays has dedicated many late nights at the gym to becoming a stronger athlete. Pole dancing is her sport of choice to teach, followed by TRX, strength & conditioning, flexibility and personal training.  Among her finest contributions to the pole world has been creating Dangerous Curves: A Celebration of Plus Size Pole Dancers.  Her talents have lead to a SAG membership for professional stunt work in Law and Order: SVU, The Big C and an Adam Sandler movie.  She loves to teach obnoxiously loud classes at Body & Pole and Crunch in New York City.  Recently, she was a featured performer on NBC’s America’s Got Talent, Season 10.  When she isn’t half naked and sweaty, Diva’s usual making pancakes with Beyoncé.

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Bawdy Love is a revolution, one full of people audacious enough to stand up and say “I am worthy of love as I am right here, right now, no exceptions. My body deserves to be seen, my voice deserves to be heard. I will not shrink. I will expand and thrive.”

Are you in?

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